Dating 101: Love You First Yesterday, I posted on Twitter that it is absolutely ok to fall in love with yourself. Yes, it may sound vain or somewhat self indulgent, but loving you is a very important part of life. Loving you is the first step in having a successful dating and romantic life. It [...]

I have no idea what it is, but it seems that every time I take a nice long vacation I come back to Chicago and get sick. When I return from someplace tropical or humid, I immediately come home and catch a sinus infection. Maybe that’s the universe way of telling me I should stay [...]

As women, we are often faced with many trials when it comes to matters of the heart. We have given our hearts to people who have abused, neglected, and misused us. People have taken advantage of everything from our minds to our bodies. We deal with being lied to, cheated on, and left only to [...]

This weekend I attended my first ever Relationship Discussion party. I’ve never known anyone to throw a party to discuss relationships but none the less, I got myself together and went out of curiosity of what the party entailed. The event was held in someone’s backyard but it was nicely done in which a circle [...]

When it comes to dating, experience has been my number one teacher. No one can prepare you for love, heartbreak, or anything in between. You have to get out there and experience the world for yourself. When things don’t work out, you pick yourself up and keep going. There is no instruction manual or assignment [...]

Whenever I give advice, I often wonder if the advice I’m giving is the best advice. I do have strict rules about what I say, how I say it, and when I say it. Most of the time, I find that people don’t want advice they mostly want a listening ear. So I try my best [...]

Believe it or not, I actually do pay attention to the keywords and phrases that people search for that leads them to my blog. It helps me know what you’re reading, what you’re not reading, and future topics that I may want to write about. This week I had one phrase that stood out that [...]

My question of the day is? How is it that we can invest so much time in someone and it never leads anywhere? Wouldn’t this be considered a huge waste of time? I can’t say that this has happened to me recently, but I’ve certainly had my share of wasted time and energy. Dating is [...]

Sometimes shit happens! That’s the best phrase I could use to describe the life of a dater. When I think of dating the phrase “always expect the unexpected” comes to mind, which I’m sure I’ve used before in my previous post. From years of experience, I have learned that some of the mishaps that happen [...]

I’m on a roll tonight, its 3:46am and I know my ass should be in bed but when it hits me I got to get it out. Have you ever heard the phrase “you are what you attract”? Well it simply means that everybody in your life whether good or bad, positive or negative has [...]