Have you ever found yourself attracted to someone who was completely opposite then you are? You like loud music, they like peace and quiet, you’re the social butterfly, they like to hold the corner spot in the room, you’re organized chaos and neat & tidy is their middle name. You’re the star of the freak [...]

  When love is not madness, it is not love -Pedro Calderon de la Barca I’ve been known to be a hopeless romantic, in fact, I know I am. I watch sappy love stories all the time and it isn’t one love story I haven’t seen. Yes, I’ve seen them all Sleepless in Seattle, You [...]

I’m not sure if I’m writing this blog for my benefit or the benefit of the reader. I mean writing is therapeutic and most of the things I write come from personal experience or the experiences of someone I know. So now I’m writing on my behalf mostly for therapeutic reasons on this little ass [...]

I’ve spent a majority of my blogs writing about dating, relationships, and self love so I decided to spice it up a little ; ) Who says sex can’t involve some drama, when I say drama I mean acting. Role playing is fun, seductive, and a great switch up from the ordinary life you live [...]

I could write about how the dating world is different for thick women than it is for skinny women but I find that this blog would pretty much be useless. I think everyone regardless of weight is having a hard time in the dating pool right now. Does weight play a factor in the quality [...]

As I lay here and listen to Musiq Soulchild’s Half Crazy I am faced with one question, Should you pursue relationships with long term platonic friends? Well, that’s a tricky question, I can honestly say that I don’t know one single person who has started a relationship with a long term friend but I do [...]

I remember during one of my many visits to New York I decided to see a psychic, Madame Ruby was her name and telling fortunes was her game. Of course I was skeptical as anyone would be but I figured what the hell. I walked up to her booth and she had me pull three [...]

“Should I give up or should I just keep chasing pavements even if it leads no where Would it be a waste, even if I knew my place, should I leave it there, should I give up” I love music and a few years ago I heard these lyrics in a song and I instantaneously [...]

 How long should you wait before you say there’s no chemistry? I mean for some it’s an instant connection, you lock eyes, and you feel something but you’re unsure what it is. As you continue to get to know the person the feeling intensifies and you begin to feel the butterflies, you smile at the [...]

The Clean Up Woman  I know that by looking at this title you’re automatically thinking of the song made famous by Betty Wright who talked about a lover she neglected and someone else who she referred to as “the clean up woman” came along and swept him off his feet. In a way this blog [...]