Brrrring You Are What You Answer To It was the sound of my Facebook inbox indicator. Thinking that it was one of my actual friends, I stopped what I was doing to attend to it. Unfortunately, it was a random guy asking me “Wat up?” Normally, I don’t respond to elementary messages like this from [...]

Dating 101: Love You First Yesterday, I posted on Twitter that it is absolutely ok to fall in love with yourself. Yes, it may sound vain or somewhat self indulgent, but loving you is a very important part of life. Loving you is the first step in having a successful dating and romantic life. It [...]

The Fat Flush Experience Over the last week or so various people have been reposting a recipe for fat flush water that was made popular on the Dr. Oz show. Last year, I was down about 50 lbs and was seriously doing well on my quest to achieve my target weight. I do not have [...]

How many times have we given of ourselves unconditionally to someone who hadn’t rightfully earned it?  We assume that because we are showing someone how good we are they will automatically say “hey, that’s a good person” let me hold on to him/her. We assume that by doing these things this person will somehow decide [...]

Mission Impossible: Cleaning Up Someone Else’s Mess Sometimes when we date people, we unwillingly become involved in their messy situations. We have to deal with their emotional problems, their family drama, and sometimes the ex who won’t let go. We begin what I like to call a Mission Impossible task of cleaning up someone else’s mess. . Deep [...]

Disappearing Acts: 5 Reasons Why Men Vanish Dating certainly has its ups and downs. You have that fear of uncertainty but at the same time you have that excited feeling that you get when you meet someone new. I think every single woman goes out with just a little bit of hope that he may [...]

When it comes to dating, experience has been my number one teacher. No one can prepare you for love, heartbreak, or anything in between. You have to get out there and experience the world for yourself. When things don’t work out, you pick yourself up and keep going. There is no instruction manual or assignment [...]

After weeks of having the DVR record some of my television shows, I finally got a chance to watch a few. I spend 90% of my day on a computer or using some gadget that has internet access so television is often neglected. I honestly space out sometimes when I’m writing or reading until I [...]

A friend once told me “everybody is full of shit; it’s just a matter of whose shit you’re willing to put up with”. When it comes to dating and relationships, I believe that no one is going to fulfill all your wants and needs. No one is going to meet every quality on our checklist [...]

Last weekend, I took in a movie with my family while we were out celebrating my sisters 31st birthday. After paying $10.50 for the movie, I then purchased a medium popcorn, a bottle of water, and a medium soda for a total of $18.75. I’m not a cheapskate at all but I did think to [...]