I can’t believe I’m up at 10am on a Saturday morning with my beloved furry sidekick and a cup of Kona Chocolate Macadamia nut coffee. Since I’m up earlier then my normal rising time of 12 noon, I decided to once again get my thoughts out. My mind is on social media and the role [...]

This past weekend, I attended a gathering at Dave & Buster’s and found myself in a brief conversation with one of the women who attended. We were talking about various topics and she made mentioned to the fact that she was divorced and how divorce translates to damaged goods for some people. I didn’t tell [...]

Today I was asked by a friend “how long should someone wait to date after a break up”? My answer was simple, it really depends on the person and how much time they feel they need to process things. Break ups are hard, plain and simple! They mess up your heart, they mess with your [...]

My holiday tunes are blasting from my iPod and the song “What Do the Lonely Do at Christmas” is one of the songs stored under my holiday favorites. It’s a golden oldie from The Emotions.  The Emotions in my opinion, were one of the best female groups to ever grace this wonderful planet we call earth not to mention [...]

I really should be sleep, I’m not sure what’s up with the insomnia tonight but its 2am and I have to work tomorrow or should I say later on today. Guess who’ll be camped out by the coffee pot later looking crazy? Yours truly! So since I can’t sleep I’ll write. Time has a funny [...]

Do you remember when you were younger and your primary goal was to learn how to ride a bike? You started off with training wheels and then the training wheels were taken off. You now found yourself having to balance yourself and hold the bike steady as you tried to guide it. No matter how [...]

I’m not sure if I’m writing this blog for my benefit or the benefit of the reader. I mean writing is therapeutic and most of the things I write come from personal experience or the experiences of someone I know. So now I’m writing on my behalf mostly for therapeutic reasons on this little ass [...]

I noticed a post on FaceBook that caught my eye, it was an article on dating multiple people and the rules attached to dating multiple people. Madame Noire is an online publication geared towards African Americans. They posted one question on FaceBook that simply asked do you date multiple people. So it of course it [...]

I could write about how the dating world is different for thick women than it is for skinny women but I find that this blog would pretty much be useless. I think everyone regardless of weight is having a hard time in the dating pool right now. Does weight play a factor in the quality [...]

Yesterday, I set out on my Ross Dress for Less adventure in Orland Park, IL. Ross is a department store similar to Marshalls or TJ Maxx but has a bigger selection of fashionable plus size clothes. Any of you who shop at Marshalls or TJ Maxx know that these stores are hit or miss. You [...]