This weekend I attended my first ever Relationship Discussion party. I’ve never known anyone to throw a party to discuss relationships but none the less, I got myself together and went out of curiosity of what the party entailed. The event was held in someone’s backyard but it was nicely done in which a circle [...]

Last weekend, I took in a movie with my family while we were out celebrating my sisters 31st birthday. After paying $10.50 for the movie, I then purchased a medium popcorn, a bottle of water, and a medium soda for a total of $18.75. I’m not a cheapskate at all but I did think to [...]

Whenever I give advice, I often wonder if the advice I’m giving is the best advice. I do have strict rules about what I say, how I say it, and when I say it. Most of the time, I find that people don’t want advice they mostly want a listening ear. So I try my best [...]

Believe it or not, I actually do pay attention to the keywords and phrases that people search for that leads them to my blog. It helps me know what you’re reading, what you’re not reading, and future topics that I may want to write about. This week I had one phrase that stood out that [...]

I think at times we forget how important communication is. I know from personal experience, I’ve felt like “I should’ve said this” or “I should’ve told them how I really felt”. Maybe things would’ve been better if I would’ve spoke up or maybe I shouldn’t have said shit at all. Maybe I should’ve shut the [...]

My question of the day is? How is it that we can invest so much time in someone and it never leads anywhere? Wouldn’t this be considered a huge waste of time? I can’t say that this has happened to me recently, but I’ve certainly had my share of wasted time and energy. Dating is [...]

Sometimes shit happens! That’s the best phrase I could use to describe the life of a dater. When I think of dating the phrase “always expect the unexpected” comes to mind, which I’m sure I’ve used before in my previous post. From years of experience, I have learned that some of the mishaps that happen [...]

Let’s face it! Perfect does not exist in any shape form or fashion. Some of us get into the habit of waiting on the perfect mate before we actually start to live our lives. This reminds me of a conversation I had with a woman a few months ago while coming home from work. I [...]

This past weekend, I attended a gathering at Dave & Buster’s and found myself in a brief conversation with one of the women who attended. We were talking about various topics and she made mentioned to the fact that she was divorced and how divorce translates to damaged goods for some people. I didn’t tell [...]

This weekend I got into an interesting conversation about online dating. I used online dating  off and on until 2010 when I  said enough is enough. I found myself thinking that almost everyone you meet in an online environment is slightly “off their rocker” but wondered if the same could be said about me since I [...]